dont make them feel like an older woman. And agreeing to go on a first date with you is a big indicator of interest. After work is an excellent time to message, the later the better. Here's another: Hey Chase, a little off topic but I'd like to see a post on moving out of the country and just traveling with a suitcase around different places. Ask: Whats your diary looking like next week?
They arent rejecting you as a person. As a rule, aim to arrange a date within 24 hours of her initial response to your first message, ideally within the first session of back and forth messaging. How many other men do you think do that to her? If you let this intimidation take over, your chances of wooing her are over. Now a four-time Amazon #1 bestselling author, over 400 media outlets have consulted him, including ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, BBC, MTV, Lifetime, Mens Health and The Wall Street Journal. Validate her and compliment her on her confidence, her energy, her vibrancy and she will be a lot more engaged than if you tell her she looks good for her age.